someone dear lingers in the past

It hurts me to see you in pain.
I feel helpless and even angry about this.

Obsession is a weakness, an illusion which drains the soul.
Obsession keeps us from the real life.
Don't be afraid to cut the strings of the past.
Don't be afraid to delete what makes you linger to what never was.

Leave it all behind and live again.
Disengage and be free from the shadows that make you smaller.
What brings you to your knees is no armor for what the future holds, but is an open door for more pain and agony.

You need to understand that you were alone from the begining, so there is no reason to fear being without the one you though was ideal.

Liberate and be all the wonderfull things you are, for yourself.